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If someone proposes an edition of my question - how can I contact him for discussing a point?
For pending and rejected edits, you cannot directly notify to discuss edits. You can reject with your reason and the user can follow up.
You can always use the main chat room or create a chat room to do this and add it as a comment to the post or for the rejection reason.